Sunday

I worked with Anthony last night trying to clean 1 of 3 of his projects. I worked from 5 until 9:45, and after being at Soccer from 9-3, by ten I was done.  I knew that we needed milk and Diapers for the kids but I just couldn’t get the energy to make a late night trip to the store.

When I woke up this morning I have to be honest for this story to make sense, I didn’t really want to get out of bed for Church. Then a quick thought came to me that I needed to go to Sacrament.  So I could hear my kids wanted waffles due to the lack of milk. I got up and made them some. I went to the garage fridge to get some juice and guess what I found an extra gallon of milk that I didn’t know was in their.

Anthony and I got the kids in the shower and dressed as well as ourselves, then ten thirty comes along and we cannot find Aubrey’s shoes anywhere.  during the search for the shoes however we did find about five diapers (just enough to get us through Sunday) A quick thought came to me that Aubrey’s shoes where in the car, and they where (even after Anthony claims he checked).  I really felt the breads from heaven…..

We got to church a few minutes late, missed the opening song. But I knew as I sat there listing to the Bishop Confirm the Holy Ghost on a new member of the church I was meant to be  there. I felt the spirit so strongly during the confirmation, more than I have ever felt. I wish I could explain it- but I can’t say it in words.

For most of you, you know that I have a problem or addiction to Coke A Cola. a few weeks ago I “knew” I needed to quit, but it wasn’t until a few days ago I decided that I would. I had Anthony give me a fathers/husband blessing to help me through this recovery. I suffered major head aches, major fatigue and lots of anger. however in his blessing it say if I was succesful I would have more spiritual experiences.

Sacrament was wonderful and very spiritual, and all the talks just entwined with each others. We went to a baptism this evening, and then came home and read scriptures and watched church history. It was a great day. However something is bothering me. I felt the prompting to go and visit family after the baptism but failed to listen, hopefully we can go tomorrow.

I would say already the lords promise has been fulfilled.

also a funny little note, I went to laurels class and it was on the word of wisdom. and a reminder of the blessing that come to those that follow it.

My goal- start going to the gym again tomorrow. It wouldn’t be so hard if I didn’t have to go at 5:30 AM. (Anthony leaves to work at 7, and doesn’t get home until LATE… and Until Sam is 6 months old he can’t go to the nursery there).

My goal is to cut out the junk food, (not going to buy it anymore) drink lots of water and go to the gym 3-4 days a week. I know that there are great blessing that come with the word of wisdom, and I think its silly that its one of the hardest commandments for me to follow. I WANT THOSE BLESSINGS! and I know that I can get them. Just takes discipline

Yesterday was my birthday, I have one more year to in joy before I am completely out of my twenties. Anthony got me some leather sofas about a month ago, and they got here just in time for him to say”Happy Birthday”. I do love them, they make my house feel cleaner. But I have to tell you the best gift of all was to be able to sit and talk to my husband and share stories with one another that we have never shared. We talked for a good hour, and compared each child to ourselves and shared stories of why we felt the way we did and it was wonderful. I just  can’t tell you how lucky I am to have an eternal companion, that I am head over heals in love with. (yes we have our fights) but at the end of the day he is the one I turn too. And the only one in my family that new it was my birthday.

Friday we went out with our good friends to a small little Italian place. The food was good, but to be able to go out and be with friends was better. I have never laughed so hard, I came home with a head ache. I am sure that the owners weren’t thrilled with us, but oh well. It was also the first time Sammy had a babysitter, and he didn’t like it.

We went to Anthony’s Grandmas house on Saturday. She lives in railroad flat, and asked us about three months ago if we would come out during the lumber jack festive.. We put in on our calendars and showed up as we said we would. She forgot that we where coming… We didn’t end up going to the lumber Jack thing, but we did stay at her house and visit for a while. It is hard to talk to her, because she has allstimers (don’t know how to spell) and it’s getting worse very quickly. He husband died over a year ago, and now she is in her house alone.  I worry about her, but there isn’t much that I can do.

Conference was very inspiring and uplifting for me on Sunday. I had questions, and they got answered.. I know  what I have to work on, and I know what I have to help my children with. I received all the answers I had prayed about, and that has put another marker on my testimony, and I know that Heavenly Father Loves Me, and wants me to be happy…( Conference is when the Prophet and his Apostles speak to us, it happens in Oct & April) www.lds.org

Work is going great for Anthony, He just finished up a Kitchen and Bathroom Remodel, and is now in the process of repairing and updating a rental house.. when he received the “go” on another Kitchen and Bathroom Remodel. He is also receiving calls on small repairs and such- so I was told to take the ad off Craig’s List for a few months. We called on Workers Comp Insurance, and most likely will be getting an employee by the end of the month. He just has NO idea who. He wants someone who knows how to do electrical and plumbing, but he doesn’t think he can find anyone with that knowledge who will work for twenty dollars an hour. We can’t pay anymore then that because workers comp cost way to much! We got a quote for a thousand dollars a month, but the employee can’t paint. Are you kidding me…. We are in Construction of course we need someone who can paint….

I have started walking Zack to school every morning. It’s great for Ava and Aubrey to get the fresh air, and Sam just sleeps in his pack. I figure I can only go to the gym three days a week, so i might as well get my excercise too walking…

I have given up fast food. After seeing how much money we spent in the past two months, I would rather keep my house cleaner. So for the past ten days I have been feeding the kids at home, then taking Anthony a packed lunch. It’s so much healthier. The only thing I am missing is Mc Donald’s has their Monopoly right now, and I love playing it…. I had to say to myself: Jen- over the past five years your have NEVER won ANYThing….. DO NOT FALL FOR IT!

I tried to give up coke again, but I think for right now I have to work on one weakness at a time.

Sam is very spoiled.  He either needs to be asleep in his car seat, or be held by me… I can’t seem to be able to get anything done. I did however put up all the Halloween lights up last night. He sat in his car seat screaming. Sometimes you just have to let them cry….. Right now he is sitting next to me screaming. He just ate, so I know he isn’t hungry.

Oh well, I have written a ton… Hopefully you will hear from me sooner then later.

Jen

IMG_0060IMG_0058IMG_0055Image this.  You are in my car, Aubrey is sound asleep (from a great play date) Ava is crying because she feels she needs another play date, the baby is SCREAMING because he NEEDS to be fed, Devun in the front seat, trying to talk to his friend in the back seat (not using his in door voice). All sitting in the car for 15 min waiting for Zack and his friend Jack to get out of class.

I got the baby out of his seat and began to feed him, then I asked Devun and Marco to go get Zack and Jack and walk them back to the car. Yes I should have gone myself, but I needed to feed the baby and Aubrey are sleeping so they go. Then I see Devun, Marco, Zack & Jack walking through the play ground with no other kids in sight.

Devun, did you walk into the class room to get Zack? Devun” yes”

Devun, do I go into your class room before school is over?

Devun: NO

so long story short, the kids were in the middle of singing the goodbye song, and Devun interrupted them, took Jack and Zack and walked them out to the car…

So today I worked in Zack class and the first thing I did was apologize for Devun, but I said Sons behavior and she thought I was talking about something else and explained to me that Zack and another boy had to go to the principals office for hitting and kicking each other at lunch. I was very surprised. You could probably image that Zack would fail to give me that info……

The teacher was fine about Devun walking into the class, she really didn’t listen to what I had to say. So am assuming she was busy and I did my part, so I won’t worry about it anymore. Now I have to worry about Zack and fighting??????

Zack loves that I come in and help out in his class room.

Anthony went on Marissa field trip today, they took some fun pictures that I will share when I get his phone from him….

Devun got a min progress report yesterday, he is doing great!

Ava, Aubrey and Sammy got a babysitter today while Anthony and I volunteered at the school. I came home to a clean house, sleeping baby and Aubrey NOT crying… I think it was a success.

Anthony is doing really great right now with his business. It seems like everyday he is getting a new referral, and he has lots of small projects going on right now. Our Calendar is full. Mobil Me was the BEST purchase that we have made all year. I am able to see what he has planned, and he can see what I plan for him and myself. So now there are no more little arguments about each others schedule. we can see it on our phones.

We are back to the stage where we think we should hire a part-time employee- we just don’t really know anyone that we trust- or who is willing to work on there own. We need someone with Anthony’s skills and work ethics who doesn’t expect a TON of pay…. any ideas?  I didn’t think so.  Oh well he’ll just have to turn some work down, or people will have to wait 6-8 weeks to get a project done. Either way Heavenly Father is blessing us, and we are Thankful!

Things you may or may not know about me

You can tell I am bored when I blog about nothing.  Heres another post about nothing.

Getting to know Jen’s likes and dislikes.

I love to get a big glass of milk and break up Oreo cookies into it. and eat them with a spoon. (just did it)

I love my cats, I just hate when they pee and pooh in the house. Not really a big dog lover (lucky for our dog, Anthony is 100 % animal lover)

I love listen to country music

I Love singing, and I have a horrible voice… But I love to sing…. My poor husband (Marissa and Ava sound & sing just like me)

I know the words to LOTS of songs, but I don’t always or ever know who sings them or what the name of the song is

My favorite holiday is Christmas… Mostly because I LOVE to shop for my children, and it’s the one time in the year besides birthdays that it’s Okay

I Hate being home alone

I hate when it’s too quit

I hate when it’s too loud

I hate returning things…. to stores

I hate talking on the phone to people

It’s hard for me to make eye contact when I talk to people

I worry about what EVERYONE thinks, and always asumes’ that its bad.

I always wanted to have ten children, and be a foster mother when I was young.

I know this sounds crazy because I have had 6 children, but I HATE being pregnant.

I hate foot ball

I love reading the scriptures with my family at night before bed.

It’s hard for me to leave the house alone, Especially at night.

I love being at the gym, I just hate leaving to go their & coming home

You already know that I can’t spell, but I can type…. (spell check is my best friend and worst nightmare)

I would rather shop for my kids & husband then buy something for myself …(unless I really need something)

I love going to and being at Disneyland with my Husband & Children…(it really is the happiest place on earth).

I am not a responsible pet person, I wait for an issue then I deal with it… Example… My cat having Kittens

I hate cooking… about 3-4 times a week my family eats fast food for either lunch or dinner.

I love watching movies

I hate watching TV

I have always wanted to write a book about my life, grammar kind of has stopped me on that progress

I am very bad at returning phone calls

I never like to commit to a date example (play date, party, going to friends/family ) in advance, just incase I can’t make it or if I am being honest don’t want to make it … (some days I don’t want to do ANYTHING, and I never know when those days will come).

big groups of people make me uncomfortable, Mostly because I don’t know how to be sociable without saying or doing something really stupid

I want to help friends and family, but most of the time I don’t get hints or even receptive to someones needs as I should be. (I am working on it)

My best friend is and has always been my husband.

In high school I didn’t have any (girl) friends, they were all boys.

I don’t know and never knew who my father was/is

My grandparents raised me

I grew up in a house that was filled with kids (6)

My grandmother was a foster parent

My mother has 5 children (all different fathers)

I am so happy for my very large and loud, and beautiful family. Heavenly Father as truly blessed me in my short time on this earth.

IMG_0032Today our cats got shots & fixed. Pirate the orange male cat was not happy to be put in a box, and chewed his way through it. He was supposed to come home and relax in a quit room. I put him in the bathroom and he dumped out his water dish all over the floor along with some kitty litter. and then cried at the door until I let him out. He then went and tried to jump on the kitchen table tons of times, falling to the ground each time. (he doesn’t get that he just had surgery and he should rest).  Raquel on the other hand his being very calm. She is the mother cat. She is in my room barley moving or crying. I feel for her the most. We thought that she was pregnant when we took her in. (I made the appointment 6 weeks ago) but lucky for us she wasn’t… She just has been in a bad mood for a few weeks. I guess thats normal for YOUNG mothers. Raquel is only a year old, and when we got her we were told she was male… To our surprise we found out she was a girl when she was about 10 weeks  pregnant. (we aren’t really great pet people).

I made an appointment for our dog to get fixed in Dec. They claim it will make him calmer. I hope so. If anyone has ever met our dog, they could easily mistake him as a bouncy ball, I have NEVER seen any dog Jump as high as he can jump. He also feels the need to mark on EVERYTHING.

What else did we do today???

Ava and Aubrey had gymnastics. Aubrey is very crazy their. She runs from one thing to the next Always being ahead of everyone else, and quickly losing interest by the time everyone else got to the corner. I really get a work out on Tuesdays.

No soccer tonight. I don’t remember the last time I had a free evening from Soccer. I can smi-relax tonight. Anthony is working late, so I can’t relax too much.. But still… the kids are confined at home, it’s really nice.

Tomorrow we have a play group/ luncheon that I am really looking forward to doing. There are a lot of new people in our ward at church, and it looks like a lot of them are going to try and attend. I want to get a play group started with Aubrey & Ava this year. They get so bored. Ava has had a play group the last two days with different good, it would be nice to get them all done in one day.

I wish I had some fun stuff to write about, but really my life is pretty boring.

Anthony will be going on Marissa’s Field trip on Thursday. I wish I could go, but I volunteer in Zack’s class on Thursday. Anthony is looking forward to going.. So I am happy about that!  I think Marissa would rather her dad go with her  anyways. So she is happy as too.

Let’s see,

Today we woke up, got all the kids fed, the older three in their soccer clothes and out the door by 8:30. Zack had a game at 9, he did so well scoring 3 goals. He really gets in there and gets the ball.. We need to teach him how to pass and work together. But he knows the object.

Devun was next- They played a team from Vallejo that was very good. Devun knows how to team pass and was the main reason his team mate scored the two goals that they scored. Devun again is very good at getting the ball and kicking. He is getting a lot better.

Last but not least was Marissa’s game. She is very good had defense. She hasn’t made a goal yet & When she  was playing baseball she was one of the best. She is a little frustrated  But I know she will get a goal before the season is up.

We are home for a few hours before we are out the door again to the Ward Round UP. My kids can’t wait, its like a carnival to them and they love it.

Anthony thought he would have a week or so off with little work, and now looking at our calendar its full again. I know when you do what you are supposed to the lord does bless you. Temporally and spiritually.

If you would have told me last December that  in 6 months Anthony would be working for himself I would have said NO WAY, we would starve, we were starving then…..   I am just so thankful for all the blessings.

I love that Anthony is working so close, and I can run errands with him, and have lunch with him almost everyday. He’ll call me and ask what I am doing… And most of the time its nothing, so I will go pick him up and we’ll drive to Home Depot . Or he will pick me up. It just works…. Its helped me mentally, Anthony is my best friend! I love spending time with him, he always makes it fun… Even when its really boring.

We started the New Testament last night as a family. The lord as given us such a wonderful gift. I want to use them.. (scriptures) I want my children to gain the wisdom and knowledge that they need to become successful members of the church, to grow up with a firm testimony of the gospel and to want to share it with family and friends. I know that the light of Christ Shines when you do what the lord advises you to do. I want my children to SHINE.

Anthony just got home, I am off to the Gym and then the store before the Round up…

Anthony’s project

I really wish that I had a before picture.. But lets just say before you could walk and seriously hurt yourself if you fell.

Now it looks like this

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My poor poor Neglected kids :(

With exception to Devun and Scout Camp, my poor kids have been deprived of play dates and fun this summer. Today Zack said “I wish Emma (cousin) was here everyday, even Sundays so we could play”. Then as we ate lunch I told the kids hopefully we will have the baby before Friday. (Friday both people that volunteered to take our kids while we are at the hospital will be out of town for a week). Zack again responded with “Then we can have play dates”? I have been so busy trying to get my house in order, and getting everything I needed for when the baby came, that I have been to busy to book or schedule play dates. I am going to have to send an email out and invite some kids to go to the pool with us in the next day or so. I haven’t really wanted extra kids around or to drop off my kids at anyone’s house “just incase”. But summer will be over in a few weeks and we really have nothing to show for it. Besides a clean house, dinners in our freezer, and a clean car. We’ll it’s almost 2 I should go take a shower and get ready to take Devun to his Ortho. Appointment… Hopefully I will have an exciting birth story to tell you all. But again I still do have 21/2 weeks before my due date. Everyone including Anthony seems to think it will be on the 24th. That’s my grandfather’s birthday as well as Anthony’s mother’s birthday. If that happens it will have to be really early morning before everyone leaves for Vacation….. Or we will be taking all 5 to the hospital, like last time plus one….. (I am sure the Doctors will love that).

I am still very much pregnant, and should be for another 3 1/2 weeks. My body is starting to act like it is going into labor. And I have noticed the more kids I have to strong the “false Labor” is. It is very frustrating to me how much pain you have to go through. I know in the end it will all be worth it, but right now I just want it to be over.

 

We are having a little birthday party for Devun on Saturday, and then my aunt will be in town the following week (I think) so I am hoping that will be the week my body goes into labor. In the mean time I am here waiting for this baby to come out!

Visiting teaching was an exciting experience. Before we could get a prayer in Zack had to be rushed to the Minor injury client at Kaiser. I guess he had a stick in his hand and wasn’t watching what Devun was doing. Then Devun threw a ball at his face and the stick cut him right under his eye. Zack had to get the glue and 3 sterile strips put over it. We missed Devun last Boy Scout Summer Party, Due to the fact that Zack cannot get it wet for 7 days. Anthony ended up taking Devun by himself. It was probably for the best, seeing how Aubrey is not afraid of the water and neither Anthony nor I really wanted to get wet… (Weather was too cold). But the worst part is we are going camping this weekend. All there is to do is swim…. We are going to have to come up with something cleaver so Zack can get his waste wet only. I will post pictures later. Other News, Anthony is officially working for himself. I know as long as I have faith things will all work out. He starts that Kitchen Remodel on Monday, and the following Monday he will start another Bathroom remodel. So he will have two of his own projects going at the same time. Sad news is I was starting to get used to him home in the evening again. The past week, he has worked lots of little projects just from referrals. (Thank you family and friend. WE LOVE YOU)! Anthony has worked part time for the past three and a half months, and with out these referrals & projects who knows where we would be. Thank You, Thank You! Like I said in my talk, have faith and Miracles will come! Today is the first day I have my mothers helper come and help me with my kids. I choose smartly. I had two of my friend’s children over last night and most of today. I honestly have not had to entertain them AT ALL! My room is clean (Miracle) and I was able to clean the rest of the house. Now I just need to get off the computer so I can pack our bags! Talk to you soon Jen

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